Hello friends how are you guys good karissa how are you i hope you guys miss you i miss our wine nights i miss everything i know i miss you too i’m so excited about your guys’s book and oh my gosh do you guys go there in this book you talk about everything you’ve gone through cheating sex addiction nearly getting a divorce you put it all in here you guys have been through so much which of course has caused criticism so why do you think you are the best to write a relationship book for us you know this whole book isn’t necessarily even advice it’s just we’ve done so much work therapeutically and on ourselves and as a couple over the last four or five years that we’re just sharing the tools that we learned from people way smarter than us the clinical professionals that taught us these tools and we’ve kind of deciphered through them and we’re just sharing what has worked for us yeah a lot of people are like well.
Why would we want to get advice from toxic you know from this toxic couple and it’s like again it’s you know we’ve yeah we’ve been through a lot of stuff but we’re also trying to help those out there that they’re not alone and marriage is hard and it does take work and here are the the tools that we’ve learned to fight for each other and not against each other but i do have to ask whenever you put all this in book and and you’re you know promoting it does it feel like you have more pressure on your relationship to like make it work and and you know does that hurt anything at all i think it is a lot of pressure.
But at the same time we’ve never claimed to be perfect again we’re just trying to do the best that we can in this relationship for us for each other for our family and you know hopefully we’ll continue to grow together as a couple and use the tools that we’ve learned so i’m trying not to put the pressure on us because i don’t want that for for each other and for ourselves you reveal that mike filed for divorce while janna you were on dancing with the stars and he was in rehab do you feel like that was your guys’s lowest point for me that wasn’t my lowest that was kind of the pivotal moment for me where i was like okay i want to i want to try like i really want to just because i knew that if i think counterfiled i’m done like once i file i’m not going back it’s not all like okay i’m going to take you back.
I can see we can separate get back together but it when when divorce is like i file we’re over and so for me it wasn’t until the the last relapse which was my the pivotal i think for our relationship but i’ll let you speak on it yeah i mean it’s one of those things where you feel like you’ve hit your low until you’ve hit another one and we hit a lot of those unfortunately over the over the last several years dealing with you know the the things that we’ve gone through and and trying to reconcile and really grow closer together so we’ve had a lot of them um over the course some more impactful than others but we kept getting up i mean that’s the thing we just kept fighting for each other and fight for ourselves and that was the whole purpose of this book to share that have you guys been asked um because it is 2020 i mean did you guys ever consider having an open relationship.
I mean people you know it’s a thing a lot of people have them now i personally couldn’t i mean the idea that you know if anything i’d be a lesbian before i’d have an open marriage um so i just but i really i love i do love men though and i love this man so i you know i i just think you know for me i i have too much um it’s not for us it’s not for us i have a little too much jealousy in my bones for that yeah another subject while i have you here jana you talked about auditioning for the real housewives but said everyone was so mean can you tell me which city you were trying out for and are you a fan of the show it was beverly hills um justin already told me i’m not allowed to do it it was just one of those things where teddy teddy had asked us um to have a little arc on it but now patty’s not a part of the show so i think that’s why we also are not going to be on the show i would have a hard time seeing you on that show i mean the the the second they asked me to like lay them up for the interview. I was like oh i can’t do this like i can’t no it’s not good it’s not like i wonder like i’m wearing sweatpants right now so we’re good.